028: Navigating Emotional Triggers in Group Sex, and The Beauty of Day Orgies

In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning how to be an ethical porn consumer, and recapping Vee's weekend at a lifestyle party, including:How to deal with it as the unicorn in a threesome when there is an issue with the couple. (1:27)Listening vs giving advice when someone is triggered, and where to have the conversation. (8:26)What to do when the vibe is off between a CNM couple in a group sex situation (reading energy and holding space). (12:40)Fears, Desires and Boundaries: a tool to clear the air, break the ice and set expectations before the orgy. (15:38)What to do when you're triggered during group sex, and giving the couple space to regroup and get sexy. (18:22)Paying for porn: how do you find what’s worth paying for?  (27:30)How do you know you’re watching porn that’s being ethically made? (30:30)Gemini Party Recap (34:32)- Connecting with and prioritizing your partner at the beginning of a lifestyle weekend. (35:37)- The difference between pool parties in the ENM lifestyle and vanilla pool parties.  Friendships with the opposite sex. (39:34)- Day orgies, why having repeat partners makes for better sex, and compersion. (45:00)- Sitting on faces.  (50:07)- The “comedown” from a big weekend: Strap ons, “pegging” vs “strapping”, how to have an awesome seven-person orgy, and how can you feel sexy in a big group? (53:33)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: [email protected]© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.