03: How Self-Doubt Makes You Outsource Your Truth

In this episode of Banish the Lies, Tania shares a candid moment where a simple conversation triggers an old pattern of self-doubt, perfectionism, and the urge to hand her truth over to others.What begins as feedback about a podcast name unfolds into a deeper reflection on how easily people abandon themselves when approval feels safer than trust. Tania explores the subtle ways self-doubt shows up, why crowdsourcing decisions can feel comforting in the short term, and the hidden cost of constantly seeking validation.The episode looks at how perfectionism and people-pleasing quietly erode self-trust, even when advice is well-intentioned. Tania reflects on the familiar pull to over-explain, second-guess, and reopen decisions that were already made from a place of clarity.Listeners are invited to notice where they may be outsourcing their own truth and to begin strengthening the muscle of self-trust through small, everyday choices. Honest and deeply human, this episode is about staying with yourself instead of abandoning what you already know.Send me a message