034: Why Emotional Presence Matters More Than You Think

In this episode, Brett reflects on his spiritual journey, the meaning of the Kingdom of God, emotional growth as a husband, and his plans for the Men Before Marriage program and book. Brett shares how his understanding of the Kingdom of God has evolved, drawing inspiration from John Bevere's recent post on the Messenger X app is that the Kingdom is the "rule of God." He shares his interpretation that it involves both the eternal destiny of believers and the Holy Spirit's transformative work in and through us. Using the parable of the talents, Brett highlights how our actions on Earth impact our roles in heaven. Brett also opens up about his shortcomings in meeting his wife's emotional needs, acknowledging how cultural norms have discouraged men from being emotionally vulnerable. He encourages men to seek God's help in becoming emotionally present husbands and fathers, as children learn relationship dynamics by observing their parents. He stresses that transformation is only possible through God's work, not self-effort. Key Takeaways: The Kingdom of God is both eternal life with God and the Holy Spirit's work in us to bear fruit and serve others. Our earthly stewardship and obedience influence our heavenly roles (parable of the talents). Emotional presence and vulnerability are essential for husbands and fathers, and men must rely on God for transformation. Brett is developing the Men Before Marriage program into a book to guide men in spiritual leadership and preparation for marriage. Here's the new Men Before Marriage community. FREE RESOURCES   My faith revival started with the  Oceans Church podcast. I have never been to a church that has such powerful teaching in my life and has made a huge impact on me. If you aren't attending a local church I highly recommend you start listening to Pastor Mark Francey.  Messenger X App - A great resource by Messenger International started by John and Lisa Bevere. You can watch videos and listen audio books for FREE to grow in your faith.  The John Bevere Podcast This is another podcast that is on my listening list as I have come to enjoy listening to the wisdom from John and his son.