036: Triggered: Bringing a Third to a Sex Party, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Perception Vs Reality

Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered.Vee shares her fears, desires and boundaries for this episode. (2:26)A challenge of having a third partner: balance. (3:57)Codependency, projection, and the stories we tell ourselves. (6:41)Elle discusses another potential challenge of having a third: feeling left out. (13:32)Elle's example of "the stories we tell ourselves" and the lessons learned. (18:16)Avoidance as a coping strategy. (26:36)Confirmation bias to support our stories. (28:47)Elle's plan/tools to deal with triggers in the future. (30:15)What Vee would do differently the next time she brings a third. (31:49)The Four Agreements. (45:08)How instagram impacts our mental health. (48:56)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: [email protected]© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.