EPISODE · Apr 26, 2020 · 1H 31M
#037: What Makes A Narcissist & How To Leave One? With Shannon Higgins, M.A., LPC-S
This is part 2 of our 3 part mini-series on hidden abuse, narcissism & gaslighting, part 1 is ep. #028: Did You just Gaslight Me?*Content note: this episode discusses abusive relationships, discretion is advised.* We go over:// Hidden abuse, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, treated with unfair ways of shame & hurt either physically, spiritually, financially and litigation abuse.// Why those who have experienced trauma are feeling fine/better than most during this pandemic.// We recap what a narcissist is from a healthy one to the dark triad.// The nr:1 distinction you need to know between a healthy narcissist and a machiavellian one.// The sociopath next door, like in the Netflix series: ‘You’, and ‘Dirty John’.// The dangers of leaving a narcissist.// The differences between a male and female narcissist aka somatic, stepford wive traits and charm, power and control.// What makes a narcissist?// Why ‘friends/colleagues/family’ align with the Narcissistic abuser out of fear, not out of genuine connection.// Why narcissists are prevalent in positions of power.// Why won’t people leave their abusive partner?// Trauma bond aka Stockholm syndrome.// The oxytocin , epinephrine and adrenaline connection that happens each time the abuser gains any trust.// Why a secure person can become codependent in an abusive relationship.// Why it's so hard to prove that type of abuse in court when trying to divorce from a hidden abuser / narcissist.// You’ve built up the courage to leave, now what?// What are the sure signs at the beginning of dating that the person is toxic.Find Shannon at https://unlockingfortitude.com/ & insta @shannonhigginslpc✨ Don’t be a stranger:🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at getyourpodcastdone.com will help you actually do the thing - without the overwhelm.📬 Want the good stuff I don’t share anywhere else? Hop on my email list❤️ If this episode made you think, laugh, or roll your eyes (in a good way), you can support the show here. It helps keep the mics on.The podcast host I swear by: Captivate💌 Old school and want to just say hi? Contact me here*Affiliate link alert: I get a tiny kickback if you sign up. Think of it as buying me a fancy coffee. ☕️
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This is part 2 of our 3 part mini-series on hidden abuse, narcissism & gaslighting, part 1 is ep. #028: Did You just Gaslight Me? *Content note: this episode discusses abusive relationships, discretion is advised.* We go over: // Hidden abuse, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, treated with unfair ways of shame & hurt either physically, spiritually, financially and litigation abuse. // Why those who have experienced trauma are feeling fine/better than most during this pandemic. // We recap what a narcissist is from a healthy one to the dark triad. // The nr:1 distinction you need to know between a healthy narcissist and a machiavellian one. // The sociopath next door, like in the Netflix series: ‘You’, and ‘Dirty John’. // The dangers of leaving a narcissist. // The differences between a male and female narcissist aka somatic, stepford wive traits and charm, power and control. // What makes a narcissist? // Why ‘friends/colleagues/family’ align with the Narcissistic abuser out of fear, not out of genuine connection. // Why narcissists are prevalent in positions of power. // Why won’t people leave their abusive partner? // Trauma bond aka Stockholm syndrome. // The oxytocin , epinephrine and adrenaline connection that happens each time the abuser gains any trust. // Why a secure person can become codependent in an abusive relationship. // Why it's so hard to prove that type of abuse in court when trying to divorce from a hidden abuser / narcissist. // You’ve built up the courage to leave, now what? // What are the sure signs at the beginning of dating that the person is toxic. Find Shannon at https://unlockingfortitude.com/ & insta @shannonhigginslpc Find me at https://linktr.ee/toooldforthisshit or www.angie-s.com
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