044: Aimee's First Sex with a Woman!

This is Aimee, and I recently had an experience that was exciting, expanding, and full of surprises of all kinds — my first time having sex with another woman.    This felt like a big deal for a number of reasons (which I share in this episode), so I invited my dear friend Kelley Bode back to the podcast to interview me and have a real, no-holds-barred convo about this encounter.    In this episode, you'll get it all: the draw I couldn't deny, the ways I felt challenged, how I stayed true to myself, and all the juicy (and oily!) details of the night itself.    This is a pretty vulnerable share for me, but I want to explore it out loud, because my hope is that it can bring some opening for other women who might have been in the same place as I was.    I'm on this journey to honor and listen to ALL of my desire — which includes both my sacred "yes" and my sacred "no." And part of this work is recognizing when (and why) something that's been a "no" for a long time might become a "yes" when the person, place, and time are in alignment.    I think you're gonna love this fun, sexy, playful, electric conversation!   What you'll learn in this episode:   My past experiences of desiring women — and how this time was different How this woman challenged my Erotic Blueprint in super surprising ways Why it's totally possible to have a desire and not be attached to its immediate fulfillment How I used super-clear, up-front communication to make this experience the most fulfilling it could be (and what we miss out on when we don't say the thing that needs to be said) What this "means" about my sexual orientation (probably not what you expect) ---- Join us (and 300+ women!) in person at the Desire on Fire Experience event, October 29-30, in Southern California! www.desireonfirelive.com Code: DESIRE for $500 off the regular ticket price!   Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/ Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/   Connect with Aimee: Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/   Connect with Ellie: Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie   Connect with Kelley Bode: Check out Kelley's Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode    Resources mentioned in this episode: Betty Dodson - My Romantic Love Wars https://bookshop.org/books/my-romantic-love-wars-a-sexual-memoir/9781522685142 David Deida: https://deida.info/