056: Isolation, Undue Influence, and Elder Financial Abuse with Tim Abrahams

Tim Abrahams, a retired Los Angeles County Sheriff's investigator who now runs Silver Bison Consulting, joins Sam Price to unpack how elder financial abuse actually unfolds. Tim spent years chasing fraud and title theft cases, and he explains why so many families get turned away at the police counter with the words "this is a civil matter." That single phrase, he says, has let countless cases die before they ever reach a detective's desk. Tim walks through the real patterns behind these crimes: isolation, sudden spending spikes, forged deeds, stolen notary stamps. He shares specific case details, including a stolen vacant lot sold through a fake ID, and explains how his reports help families get law enforcement to actually listen. Families dealing with suspected elder abuse will find a clear roadmap here, straight from someone who investigated these cases for thirty years. In this episode, you will hear: Tim Abrahams' path from LA County Sheriff's investigator to founding Silver Bison Consulting Why "this is a civil matter" sends so many elder abuse cases nowhere The common thread in these cases isolation from family and friends How caretakers escalate from small withdrawals to full financial control Red flags in bank records, deed transfers, and sudden spending changes A real case involving a stolen notary stamp and a fraudulent property sale How Tim builds reports that give families a real shot with law enforcement Resources from this Episode The 6-Stage Probate Process: How to Navigate California Probate: https://a.co/d/82310Rw  silverbison.net linkedin.com/in/timothy-abrahams-666309288/ Follow and Review: We'd love for you to follow us if you haven't yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select "Ratings and Reviews" and "Write a Review" then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com. Let them know we sent you.