073 Oh my GAD (General Anxiety Disorder) with Jeffrey Kunkel

Jeffrey Kunkel talks about “Oh my GAD (General Anxiety Disorder)” in this episode of ColdFusion Alive podcast with host Michaela Light. By our nature web developers are prone to anxiety. Web development takes a monumental dedication to continuing education, networking, and being an expert source for many of your coworkers. Learning to manage stress early can be one of the most indispensable skills for a long healthy career in web development. Be it FOMO, Impostor Syndrome, Analysis Paralysis, or just generally feeling overwhelmed, developers of all levels can benefit from learning to take a step back and allow themselves to relax and be productive. I will focus on my perspective of being a web developer with anxiety in today's web development world. I'll talk about using "Fake it 'till you make it" philosophy to help combat the anxiety of keeping up with the ever evolving web. I also plan to delve into "Impostor Syndrome," and more specifically how to foster self confidence in your ability without cultivating an ego. By the end of my talk I'd like people to leave with the stress management skills and frame of mind to increase their productivity and overall job satisfaction. This talk is ideal for developers feeling the weight of career and having stress and anxiety productivity issues.QB Show notes Why this matters to all CF Developers 20% of general population 60% of CFers sometimes have Anxiety Disorder Introverts Stressful profession Anxiety Stress → bad for health and happiness Can follow you home Can lead to suicide Bad for productivity FOMO Impostor Syndrome Late to Git Fear of being accused of being a fake, not knowing the topic Just start learning it Ok to admit you don’t know something and learn it Stackoverflow CF slack channel Google Ask Impossible to know everything about everything in full stack development Self confidence in your ability without cultivating an ego Remember what it was like to be new to this Analysis Paralysis Overwhelm Too many tasks to do Lack of priorities Planning up front save time in the end Lots of tabs → more anxiety and distractions Turn of speakers - so chat notification don’t interrupt my train of thought Perfectionism Adding bells and whistles to code Ok to come back to less important issues later (add to todo list) Limited perfection to top priority issue Is anxiety all bad Advantage of double checking OCD = Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Interruptions → anxiety spikes Save where you where Todoist note Git Stash Self medication Alcohol Food Caffeine Can be bad for your health Negative feedback loop Conferences Alcohol Stress management skills Take a break Wrist tracker reminder Deep, slow breathing Yoga Reach out to developer friends and CF Community Getting Things Done method Music while I work Turn off sound notifications on computer and phone Mindsets "Fake it 'till you make it" philosophy You never learn if you panic before you start CF Community Standing desk Exercise Sleep Naps Earlier to bed vs later getting up Less Caffeine Family time Female CFers more anxiety Talk about your anxiety Why are you proud to use CF? WWIT for you to make CF more alive this year? What are you looking forward to at Into The Box? Mentioned in this episode CF Suicide episode Into The Box Conference Todoist Getting Things Done book by Dave Allen Introverts guide to conferences article Getting Real with Women in Tech with April Graves  Brain.fm Melatonin Railo Lucee Node.js JSconf CFObjective Tech Has an Anxiety Problem. This CEO Is Working to Combat It STRESS & ANXIETY IN THE TECH INDUSTRY   Listen to the Audio Bio Jeffrey Kunkel Jeffrey Kunkel is an in house web developer for www.lightingnewyork.com. He has been developing for six years, and is excited to start contributing to the ColdFusion community at large. Jeff has been living with anxiety, depression, and OCD for his entire career. He wants to take the lessons he's learned working around and with these conditions to better the workflow and productivity of his colleagues. Links Twitter Interview transcript Michaela 0:01 Welcome back to the show today we're going to be looking at G ad general anxiety disorder and I am here with Jeffrey Kunkel rhymes with Uncle and we're going to look at why this matters to all cold fusion developers. You may be surprised by how many people this kind of thing effects and we'll talk about anxiety fo mo imposter syndrome. analysis paralysis, being overwhelmed. OCD, perfectionism. And is anxiety all bad if you're a CF developer. And we'll also look at some solutions. But dealing with this, particularly if you're going to conferences this year, because it's a lot of cold fusion events happening. And that can bring out the worst in the anxiety. So welcome, Jeffrey. Unknown 0:46 Oh, Michaela 0:48 hey. And if you don't know him, he's a co founder and developer. He's been one for quite a few years now. And he's just getting more active in the coffee here. community. And this is the first time he's speaking. Yep. Publicly at a conference. So probably your little anxious about the whole talk thing that you're giving on anxiety? It's a bit of a self referential Yep, they're Jeffrey Kunkel 1:13 living the experience I'm talking about. Absolutely. Read more   And to continue learning how to make your ColdFusion apps more modern and alive, I encourage you to download our free ColdFusion Alive Best Practices Checklist.Because… perhaps you are responsible for a mission-critical or revenue-generating CF application that you don’t trust 100%, where implementing new features is a painful ad-hoc process with slow turnaround even for simple requests.What if you have no contingency plan for a sudden developer departure or a server outage? Perhaps every time a new freelancer works on your site, something breaks. 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