075: What Would Love Do?

What if the greatest breakthrough in your marriage happens when you least feel like being loving?Welcome to Episode #75 of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, “What Would Love Do?” with Evan and Susan Money! In this eye-opening and heart-centered episode, our hosts unpack a deceptively simple question that has the power to transform your marriage—especially during those tough moments when love feels hardest to choose.Episode Highlights:What Would Love Do? Inspired by a question modeled by Jesus and echoed by thought leaders, Evan and Susan dig deep into the real meaning of “acting in love”—not just when times are good, but especially when you're hurt, angry, or just don’t feel like it.Game-Changing Reminders: Learn the powerful mindset shift from “I’ll forgive someday” to “Why not forgive now?” and discover how this “6G speed forgiveness” leads to faster restoration, more joy, and less pain in your relationship.Letting Go of Shame, Guilt, and Fear: Explore why clinging to these destructive emotions sabotages intimacy and what it means that they were “cancelled” for you over 2,000 years ago.Practical Examples & Uplifting Stories: Hear how Evan and Susan use everyday choices—like swapping out dinner for a healthy salad or leaving love notes—to nurture consistency, connection, and personal growth.Transformative Tools: Get actionable steps for inviting your spouse into growth with you (“Will you help me?”), plus a memorable hands-on visual for breaking out of “pushing and resisting” and into hand-in-hand teamwork.Put This Episode Into Action:Ask the Golden Question: This week, when a conflict or frustration arises, pause and ask yourself “What would love do?”—then take one loving action (even if you don’t feel like it).Forgive Fast and Fully: Practice speedy forgiveness with your spouse and yourself—don’t let pain linger, and notice how quickly your connection improves.Daily Mindset Reset: Follow Evan and Susan’s advice and make a daily habit of “renewing your mind”—choose encouragement, write a love note, or replace a negative response with a loving one.Lead by Example: Don’t force change on your partner; instead, be the example of the habits and attitudes you want to see, and invite them to join you—no guilt or shame.Share Your Wins: Write down one thing you learned and how you’ll apply it. You might even DM Marriage of Greatness on Instagram to share your story!Don’t forget: For ongoing inspiration and to follow Evan and Susan’s journey to 100 weddings, check out evanlovessusan.com and their Instagram @marriageofgreatness.Are you ready to act in love before you feel like it? Listen in, take action, and watch greatness unfold in your marriage!