#083 The Soulmate Question and Other Marriage Truths You Need to Hear

Welcome to another inspiring episode of The Turn Your Life Around Podcast with your host, Sarah Coates, aka “The One80 Lady.” In today’s conversation, Sarah welcomes back Olatunde Howard, LMFT, one of the most insightful relationship therapists in the Triangle area, for the third installment of the Love Actually Relationship Series.Together, they dive deep into what it takes to sustain a strong, faith-based marriage. From practical advice for newlyweds to handling differences in faith, Olatunde shares wisdom from his 23 years of marriage and professional counseling. They also explore the mysterious concept of soulmates, how to intentionally grow together spiritually, and why praying together is one of the most powerful things a couple can do.Whether you’re newly married, in a long-term relationship, or looking for encouragement, this episode is packed with wisdom, hope, and practical tools to strengthen your connection.Timestamps:00:00:00 – Welcome: Love Actually Series Part 3 with Olatunde Howard00:02:00 – Key advice for newlyweds: Daily connection matters00:04:00 – Defining marriage: Most intimate relationship second only to God00:07:00 – Focus on yourself first, not your spouse00:09:00 – When faith perspectives change in marriage00:11:00 – Living your faith without preaching it00:14:00 – Raising kids with different faith backgrounds00:18:00 – Strengthening faith together: Why praying together matters00:20:00 – Why prayer can feel vulnerable for couples00:23:00 – How to easily initiate prayer with your spouse00:27:00 – Soulmates: Are they real? Olatunde’s surprising take00:33:00 – God’s sovereignty and free will in love00:37:00 – Olatunde’s real-life love story00:40:00 – Final thoughts: Be intentional and trust the journeyDon’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more powerful conversations on faith, marriage, and living intentionally.Follow Us:Website: www.one-eightycounseling.comPodcast Website: www.theturnyourlifearoundpodcast.comYouTube: www.youtube.com/@turnyourlifearoundpodcastInstagram: www.instagram.com/turnyourlifearoundpodcast#FaithAndMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #LoveActuallySeries #MarriageHelp #MarriageCounseling #TurnYourLifeAroundPodcast #SarahCoates #TheOne80Lady #OlatundeHoward