#086: Why Love Is The Only Weapon Against Self-Sabotage

John Lynch is our special guest on this powerful episode that offers freedom in the way only love can.  John is one of our favorite authors, a dear friend, and one of the few people in the world who can talk about "permission and protection" in a way that has the potential to unlock a lifetime of bondage. Many of us would make a 100 on a true/false test if the quiz asked if we knew that cheating was wrong, too much alcohol is bad for us, anger can be hurtful, or if pornography destroys trust. We all KNOW. And we still give ourselves permission to do what we KNOW is wrong--unless we are protected by someone we ALLOW to protect us--and to help us change our minds about doing what we've always done. THIS is the power of LOVE. Join us on this funny and potentially life-changing episode with John Lynch and linger in these TAKEAWAYS: Awareness of one's issues is not permission to address them.  I must seek and receive permission to address the issues of others. (Trueface) Protection is earned permission I give someone I trust to see behind the mask and hear the real struggle and all the lies I tell myself when I give myself permission to fail. Accountability, except in a job description, is simply a function of law. It causes me to hide from and resent those who love me most and whom I need most. We mention these resources in this episode: John Lynch Speaks-- https://www.johnlynchspeaks.com/ https://www.facebook.com/JohnLynchSpeaks/ On My Worst Day: Cheesecake, Evil, Sandy Koufax, and Jesus by John Lynch https://smile.amazon.com/My-Worst-Day-Cheesecake-Koufax/dp/1934104078/ The Cure: What if God isn't who you think He is? and neither are you? By John Lynch, Bruce McNicol, and Bill Thrall  https://smile.amazon.com/Cure-What-isnt-think-neither/dp/1934104086/ The Cure & Parents https://smile.amazon.com/Cure-Parents-Bill-Thrall/dp/1934104094/ Two Roads - on YouTube (full length) https://youtu.be/Rfy03PEVUhQ  (shorter version) https://youtu.be/mOJ1wUcP804