087 – Peer Pressure

As a new listener you might wonder why we would want to do that…and I would say because if you commit to being a better man today than you were yesterday, and keep doing that every day until you die, then you will have lived a life that is as close to your potential as a man, as you can get. The other benefit, is that with all these men being better men than they were the day before…the world will become a better place. So, we are making the world a better place, one man at a time. So thanks for being here, new listeners and old ones. I am your host, my name is Alf Herigstad. Today I am going to talk about peer pressure. Peer pressure has probably gotten guys into more trouble than anything else in the world. Seriously, when people take drugs or alcohol for the first time it is usually because of peer pressure. When guys do stupid things that send them to jail…it’s usually because of peer pressure. When guys wind up permanently maimed or dead…it is usually because of peer pressure. So…why is that? Why will people so readily and so often act in ways contrary to their own common sense just because they are encouraged by a group of their peers to do so? It’s obviously a very powerful thing, this peer pressure. I’m sure many, if not all of you listening have succumbed to peer pressure at least once in your life. Well, don’t feel bad about it. It turns out it is a very natural human thing. Our peer group are usually people in our same age bracket that are in the same social / economic status as us. This is the water we swim in from day to day. It’s a pretty natural thing to want to elevate your status within your peer group by becoming popular, being well liked, and being accepted and thought of as part of that group. The problem is…often times, people of greater influence in a peer group will encourage others who want to gain status, to do really stupid things. Things you wouldn’t do otherwise. Sometimes it is done just to demonstrate their power. Peer pressure can effect people of any age, it’s not just a high school thing, and it doesn’t just happen in social settlings…peer pressure can happen in the work place too, and it does. Basically, anytime you are talked into doing something you really don’t want to do…you are being peer pressured. I’m sure you can see the obvious problems this can potentially lead to. Well,you came to the right place because I’m going to tell you some stuff that might help you. First of all, I should confess that I was one of those weird kids that was immune to peer pressure. It was because of my dad, he taught me some really great but really tough lessons....