088. what my 3.5 year relationship taught me [soul contracts & break-up reflection]

3 weeks ago, my 3.5 year relationship came to an end… and I’m feeling pretty great now. Here’s the rundown on what I’ve learned, how I’ve grown, and the perspectives I’ve taken to process and move on from my ex-soulmate. FYI- it’s not a sad story, just a raw human experience. (00:00) Context into my last relationship (04:10) Soulmates & Soul Contracts (07:25) Anchoring into relationships (14:18) Knowing vs. Acting on your knowing (20:12) Relationships are Expanders (29:08) Post-breakup feelings & insights (36:07) You can't manufacture desire (38:15) Seeing the relationship as a success (41:41) Empowerment through relationships ending (46:47) Moving on feeling grounded, joyful, and optimistic in the midst of external chaos Links Mentioned: 💻 FOUNDATIONS COURSE: True Self Alignment (learn to be yourself) https://bit.ly/true-self-alignment 💻 WORKSHOP: The Art of Feeling Your Feelings (emotional intelligence) https://bit.ly/feel-you-feelings Subscribe to The Oracles of Wonderment and enchant your inbox with life perspectives and soul codes that’ll lead you deeper into your connection with yourself 🗞 ⁠https://bit.ly/oraclesofwonderment⁠ Work with Jen 🤝 ✨ 1:1 Life Coaching https://www.jencui.com/1on1 ✨ Soul Readings & Tarot Advising https://www.jencui.com/card-readings ✨ Soulful Sisterhood: L.A. based Women’s Circles and Events https://www.jencui.com/soulful-sisterhood Connect with me 💖 Website: https://www.jencui.com/ Podcast: https://www.jencui.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jencuicoaching/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jencuicoaching Music Credits: Track: Noise — gbry.svg [Audio Library Release] Music provided by Audio Library Plus Watch: https://youtu.be/Tk0v3xOfRAA Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/noise-gbrysvg Track: Freedom — tubebackr [Audio Library Release] Music provided by Audio Library Plus Watch: https://youtu.be/ChJ5ibBzCas Free Download / Stream: https://alplus.io/freedomm