098: Meet Chris & Yas Hernandez

What if the most powerful marriage advice you ever receive is simply to ask your spouse what they mean—before an argument even begins?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan Money and Susan Money invite high school sweethearts turned business partners, Chris Hernandez and Yas Hernandez, to the table to share their incredible story of personal growth, commitment, and faith. Together for 14 years and married for four, Chris and Yas have built their relationship on five foundational pillars—faith, family, fitness, finance, and fun—and they’re here to reveal how intentional choices turned their challenges into their strengths.Key highlights from this episode:Discover the surprisingly simple communication hack that saved Chris and Yas from countless arguments (and will do the same for you!).Learn how surviving a life-altering health scare transformed Chris’s views on marriage, self-love, and his relationship with Yas.Get a behind-the-scenes look at how the Hernandezes intentionally cultivate friendships and surround themselves with growth-focused couples.Uncover why “falling in love with the process” is the secret sauce for both business and marriage—and how to find joy in the journey, not just the outcome.Hear from both couples on how breaking free from sarcasm, teasing, and the victim mentality leads to healthier relationships.PLUS: What movie would best capture their story—and which A-list actors would play them?Whether you’re newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode will inspire you to examine what it truly means to grow with your spouse, embrace intentionality, and write your own definition of a great marriage.Timestamped Episode Overview00:00:00 – Meet Chris & Yas Hernandez: Intro and background00:01:40 – How their motto “Let’s grow together so we never have to grow apart” guides their lives00:03:31 – What Chris and Yas are most grateful for in each other00:05:25 – Their unconventional high school romance & faith journey00:08:42 – Surviving a health scare and redefining relationships00:10:05 – The values and cultural roots that shape Yas’s approach to marriage00:13:42 – Why loving yourself is critical before loving your spouse00:17:23 – Building accountability and leadership through business and community events00:21:33 – Spring cleaning relationships: transactional vs. growth friendships00:22:57 – The importance of intentionality in marriage00:28:39 – Why even joking about infidelity is toxic, and how language shapes reality00:32:15 – The marriage advice that changed everything: always define your terms00:37:11 – Most memorable gifts exchanged (hint: it’s not about the price tag!)00:41:09 – If their marriage was a movie: titles, actors, and legacy00:43:50 – Closing thoughts and where to connect with the Marriage of Greatness communityListen now to discover the habits, mindset shifts, and practical tools that can take your marriage from good to great!