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1.22 Surrogate Spouse, Surrogate Savior (Part 1)

An episode of the The Same Boat podcast, hosted by Roy Kim, titled "1.22 Surrogate Spouse, Surrogate Savior (Part 1)" was published on January 20, 2020 and runs 41 minutes.

January 20, 2020 ·41m · The Same Boat

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Summary

"You are not equipped to give your parents the love and care they needed and did not get from their own caregivers and partner," says Hatty J. Lee, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Many of us have felt tremendous pressure to listen to our parents' marital problems, to protect them from loneliness or worthless feelings, to give them grandchildren for their legacy. Sometimes it seems like obligation, duty, or even pity. Where do these feelings and thoughts come from? What happens when we live as a surrogate spouse, as a surrogate savior?  Hatty and I do a deep dive into this hot topic that affects so many of us. Join the conversation! Follow Hatty on Instagram @hattyjlee or visit her website: www.oakandstonetherapy.com Follow Roy on Instagram @thisisroykim or visit his website: www.newlegacycounseling.com Would LOVE your feedback: [email protected]. Please help support the podcast by sharing on social, reviewing on your podcast app, or becoming a patron >> www.patreon.com/thesameboat

Episode Description

"You are not equipped to give your parents the love and care they needed and did not get from their own caregivers and partner," says Hatty J. Lee, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist.

Many of us have felt tremendous pressure to listen to our parents' marital problems, to protect them from loneliness or worthless feelings, to give them grandchildren for their legacy. Sometimes it seems like obligation, duty, or even pity.

Where do these feelings and thoughts come from? What happens when we live as a surrogate spouse, as a surrogate savior? 

Hatty and I do a deep dive into this hot topic that affects so many of us. Join the conversation!

Follow Hatty on Instagram @hattyjlee or visit her website: www.oakandstonetherapy.com

Follow Roy on Instagram @thisisroykim or visit his website: www.newlegacycounseling.com

Would LOVE your feedback: [email protected]. Please help support the podcast by sharing on social, reviewing on your podcast app, or becoming a patron >> www.patreon.com/thesameboat

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