10: Alek Rolstad | Sex Talk and Sexual Prizing

Girls Chase author Alek Rolstad talks sex talk, sexual prizing, and sexual framing (and reframing) with host Varoon Raja. How do you make women you’ve just met start fantasizing right away about sex with you on the back of conversation alone? Alek shares his potent techniques. Selected topics of conversation… • The key lessons for Alek early into learning seduction (12:03) • What Alek learned from a Danish girl about social value (17:15) • How social value makes it easier for women to accept sexual moves (18:29) • Alek’s first time using sexual prizing with a girl (20:08) • A brief definition of sexual prizing (21:14) • What the proper way to talk about sex looks like (24:14) • Talking about sex without outright saying “I will do this to you” (27:18) • How to show her you might be into her, yet give her mixed signals (28:55) • How to show interest and be attainable as you talk sex (29:54) • Ways to disqualify women who disapprove of sex talk (31:13) • Calibrating sex talk to the woman you’re speaking with (33:37) • How to transition into sex talk (34:42) • The sexual-to-social fractionation routine (38:58) • What makes fractionation so useful (41:14) • Alek’s ‘8 types of orgasm’ routines (42:24) • A discussion of anti-slut defense, and ‘sexual reframing’ (44:43) • How to communicate discretion to women and be low-key (47:22) • Framing yourself as the lover vs. as the provider (48:45) • “I don’t want sex - I want good sex” (51:44) • The ‘secret society’: women seek out a few select men for sex (53:03) • How to create a scenario where you are an insider to a woman’s world (55:46) • Alek’s ‘secret society routine’ (57:12) • Alek’s 100% success ‘totally unfair’ routine (1:05:20) Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-10-alek-rolstad LEARN SOMETHING GOOD? SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW! If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe in iTunes and leave a review. This helps us reach more ears, and casts your vote for “Yes! Make more episodes!”