EPISODE · Dec 26, 2025 · 21 MIN
#100.When Cutting People Off Becomes Avoidance
from Evolve & Elevate · host Zama Mthombeni
every year end cutting people off becomes a ritual rather than a decision. In this episode, I interrogate how the language of boundaries and peace is often used to avoid accountability at teh turn of the year. And also how the same language can also describe necessary, ethical distance.This episode examines:Why end of year cutt offs intensifyHow victims and perpetrators use the same language differently.When cutting people off functions as avoidance When it is a legitimate response to repeated harm.This is not a motivational episode.Its a critical reflection on accountability, distance and discernment.Please follow us on instagram: evovle_elevate21Email us: [email protected]
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every year end cutting people off becomes a ritual rather than a decision. In this episode, I interrogate how the language of boundaries and peace is often used to avoid accountability at teh turn of the year. And also how the same language can also describe necessary, ethical distance.This episode examines:Why end of year cutt offs intensifyHow victims and perpetrators use the same language differently.When cutting people off functions as avoidance When it is a legitimate response to repeated harm.This is not a motivational episode.Its a critical reflection on accountability, distance and discernment.Please follow us on instagram: evovle_elevate21Email us: [email protected]
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