101: Working Your Ass Off So You Can Have It All?

You’re working your ass off to have it all. And you want it all, right now. [VIDEO] on Men Of Abundance YouTube Go ahead and Subscribe while you're there.What the hell do you want? What is IT you’re chasing?If you’re like I was just three years ago, and for almost every day of my life before that, you’re striving for a better life. You’re working and hustling to make that 6 or 7 figure income. And for what?What will a million dollars give you that you don’t already have. Well, after talking to several millionaires and high 6 figure income earners, the answer is, not much.[caption id="attachment_1740" align="alignleft" width="200"] My wife and I[/caption]Do not get me wrong. I like figuring out new ways add more value to other people’s life. And that does translate into getting paid once in awhile. And yes, I do like getting paid for my efforts. But getting paid is not my focus.My focus is adding value to others. And the first people I add value to over everyone else is my wife and kids. If I had to chose to between earning $5000 to mentor another man for one day and attending a one time event for my wife and kids, I would chose my wife and kids without hesitation. And I know that man would respect me more for making that choice. Because that’s what he wants in his life.More importantly, my wife and boys would respect me as well. Now if my wife found out I gave up the chance to help another man and earn $5K, we might have some words. But that’s for another blog post.So here’s what I want you to do…Right now, sit a quiet area with a notepad and write down what it is you don’t want. Yup! Write down what you don’t want in your life.Do that now. Seriously. Don’t read any further. Set your timer for 5 minutes. Write what you don’t want until the timer goes off.Done?If not, go back and do that. Seriously. Finish that task before you read any further.OK, now I want you to do the same thing, only this time, write down what you do want.Set your timer for 5 minutes and write down everything you want in life.Go!Now, look at your two lists. What you don’t want and what you do want.Which one is longer? Post your answer below in the comments are of this post.Chances are, your “What I don’t want” list is much longer than your “What I do want” list.Most people have no idea what they want today, let alone what they don’t want.If I was standing in front of you right now and told you to tell what you want, could you clearly tell me what you want?You have to be vividly clear on what you want. If you don’t know what you want how the hell do you plan on getting there?Chances are, once you define what you really REALLY want, you may realize you’re halfway there or already there, like I did.Let others gain from your thoughts by sharing your comments below. Now, go out and Life Your Life of Abundance. And Make sure to share this and Pay it Forward.WallyPRICE INCREASE ALERT!  Are you thinking about starting your own business? Need more ideas, guidance, training and mentorship?FREEDYM is by far the best and most complete Lifestyle Entrepreneur education site I've ever seen. And I've seen many.With a FREEDYM...