102: How to Get People To Change

"The ability to control and change yourself is actually the greatest power of all." Episode Summary:  We often despair of the behavior of people around us - our parents, friends, children or partner - and we do our best to try and make them change. Unfortunately, forcing people to change doesn't usually work. Listen to this episode to learn 3 simple keys that will help you bring real and lasting change to the people around you. Some Questions I Ask: Do you often question how others should be living? What does this person mirror to you about yourself? What is this person showing you about yourself that you don't want to see? That you might be resisting? Have you tried to really listen and understand why someone does what they do?   In This Episode You Will Learn: Three keys to get people to change. The unpleasant effects of trying to attack people to make them change. The first step you need to take in order to get others to shift. How to know when people are ready to change. Why imposing your vision onto others and trying to will them to change is not an effective strategy.