103. Why "Should" is TOXIC and How To Reprogram Your Self-Talk | Relationship Series: Self - Part 2

Part 2 of 2 to transform your relationship with yourself covers the next crucial component to having a thriving healthy relationship with yourself- using your language intentionally. In this episode, I cover: ✅ Why "should" statements are hurting you more than you think ✅ What to say instead of "I should" or "I shouldn't" ✅ How to shift your self-talk and the benefits you'll notice from it ✅ Where the "shoulds" came from and how to let them go (00:00) intro (01:55) tarot message: 11. Justice (03:14) ice cream paradigm shift (08:43) what aligned celebration looks like (11:40) 3 ways to reprogram "should" statements (13:24) "should" audit (14:51) why "should" is so toxic (18:37) your feelings tell the truth (22:47) turning point in business happiness (27:21) bonus vs. winning results (28:59) as above, so below (29:44) it's not your fault Ways to work with me 🤝 ✨ Book a Tarot Session: https://www.jencui.com/card-readings ✨ Learn More About RTT® Hypnotherapy: https://www.jencui.com/rtt ✨ Apply for Soul Whispering: https://www.jencui.com/1on1 ✨ Join the next Soul Whispers Retreat: https://www.jencui.com/swretreat FREE RESOURCES 🔥 ⭐️ Free 21-Day Hypnosis Audio for Confidence, Inner Safety, and Daily Happiness: https://jencui.podia.com/hypnosis-for-daily-happiness-true-confidence ⭐️ Free Tarot Pick-a-Card Reading: https://jencui.podia.com/newsletter SOUL LIBERATING WORKSHOPS 🦋 🧿 Partner with Your Privilege: https://jencui.podia.com/partner-with-your-privilege 🧿 The Art of Feeling Your Feelings: https://jencui.podia.com/the-art-of-feeling-your-feelings-emotional-intelligence-masterclass 🧿 Healing The Feminine: https://jencui.podia.com/healing-the-feminine-stop-doing-it-all-reclaim-your-feminine-power 🧿 Healing The Masculine: https://jencui.podia.com/healing-the-masculine-how-to-step-into-modern-day-masculinity CONNECT WITH ME 💖 Website: https://www.jencui.com/ Podcast: https://www.jencui.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenthesoulwhisperer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenthesoulwhisperer