104. How do you stop putting everyone else before yourself and your career?

How do you stop putting everyone else before yourself and your career? You are not alone - so many women put others feelings before their own careers It's not selfish to go for what you really want 5 things to think about that will help you shift your thoughts and start putting you first   Today's quick win episode and we will be addressing the issue that comes up when you hold yourself back because you are worried about stepping on others toes.  This happens a lot and not just when it comes to your colleagues but also with managers and senior staff.  We tell ourselves that we can't speak up or go for certain opportunities because we may upset others and worry about the consequences or what they will think about us and our ambitions.  The thing is, if you have experienced this type of sabotage then you are not alone but there are ways to move past it.  So in this episode we go through 5 ways you can start to think differently about your own career progression and stop putting everyone else before yourself. Let me know what you think! ...................................... Don't forget you can get my monthly NEWSLETTER that shares the latest around the gender pay gap, visibility strategies good practices that are happening all over the place that support more women to step up and be recognised for the value they bring.   Get yours by clicking >> https://www.gemmastow.com/newsletter or book a chat  https://calendly.com/gemmastow-1/call-with-gemma   #Resources    Take the Test > How good is your visibility and personal branding quiz?   http://bit.ly/visibility-takethetest Get the White Paper 'Visibility at Work: The Importance of Self Promotion for Women's Career Progression:   https://bit.ly/WP2020podcast     Book a call with Gemma:   https://calendly.com/gemmastow-1/call-with-gemma     Get the newsletter:   https://www.gemmastow.com/newsletter Connect with your host Gemma Stow: Website: https://www.gemmastow.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gemmastow/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/gemmastow Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nomorehidingpodcast