1043 | How Your Inner Dialogue Shapes Your Reality

In this episode, Marsha explores the stories we repeatedly tell ourselves and how those words can quietly become part of our identity.She shares a personal realization around a story she had carried for years — that everything had to be a struggle. What started as something she could joke about had actually become a subconscious pattern she continued to reinforce.Through the lens of Human Design, Marsha began to reframe struggle not as evidence that life has to be hard, but as a reflection of her tenacity and resilience.This episode is an invitation to notice the labels, jokes, and stories you repeat about yourself. Because when you change the meaning of the story, you create space to change the identity attached to it.Chapters:[03:03] - Understanding Human Design and Personal Growth[04:35] - Understanding the Channel of Struggle[08:35] - Reframing Struggle as Tenacity[10:20] - Understanding Labels and Identity[14:24] - Transforming Your ThoughtsMarsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and PodcasterOUTSPOKEN QUIZ: https://nlp.marshavanw.com/LOCKED IN: https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/locked-inOUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlpUNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3PaWrite Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenowOUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.comTickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/liveUnbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcastUnbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcastDownload “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HEREThe Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow!Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HEREMentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp