105- How Over-functioning is Killing Your Relationships... And We're All Doing It

Host Samantha and cohost Anthony discuss the secret cycles that govern our closest bonds and the way we often trade our needs for a false sense of peace. They analyze the dynamic between the person who does too much and the person who does too little within a household or a romance. Samantha explains how her mother sparked this deep dive into relationship patterns and why certain books are worth reading multiple times to catch the details we missed the first time around. The pair breaks down why being a nice girl or an angry firebrand often leads to the same frustrating results of not being heard. They look at the concept of over functioning as a way to gain control and how it can accidentally train a partner to stop showing up for the relationship. They also touch on the awkward friction that occurs when you finally decide to stop doing everything and the ways our loved ones might resist that growth. They share stories about community living and how even the most basic chores can reveal our deepest fears about connection. This talk teases a new way of looking at intimacy that moves beyond old scripts and into a more conscious way of being together. Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirlAre you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community? Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters! We love to hear from you, so please connect with us on Instagram: @houstontantragirl and @anthony._michael