1053 | You Cannot Create a New Life From an Old Identity

In this episode, Marsha explores a powerful truth: you cannot create a new life while continuing to hold onto an identity built for an old one.She shares how we can become attached to identities, labels, and stories because they feel familiar and safe — even when they no longer align with who we are becoming.Marsha also explores the difference between standing in your story and standing on your story. When you stand in it, the story can define you. When you stand on it, you can use what you've lived through as perspective, wisdom, and a foundation for where you're going next.This episode is an invitation to notice which identities you're ready to release and consciously choose the ones that match the life you're creating.Chapters:[06:26] - The Transition from Wound to Wisdom[10:47] - Understanding Identity Through Our Stories[17:41] - Building Bridges: The Journey of Connection[20:57] - Embracing New IdentitiesMarsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and PodcasterOUTSPOKEN QUIZ: https://nlp.marshavanw.com/LOCKED IN: https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/locked-inOUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlpUNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3PaWrite Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenowOUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.comTickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/liveUnbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcastUnbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcastDownload “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HEREThe Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow!Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HEREMentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp