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EPISODE · Feb 11, 2026 · 17 MIN

106. Love Me Better: Why Wanting More Feels Risky

from Speak Honest Podcast: Real Talk on Relationships, Attachment Styles & the Work of Healing Childhood Trauma · host Jennifer Noble, PCC | Relationship Coach, TEDx Speaker, & Best Selling Author

Why does wanting more love feel so risky, even when connection is the thing you want most?In this episode of Speak Honest, I explore what happens inside us when desire, asking, and receiving love start to feel loaded, especially around Valentine’s Day. We slow things down and look at why love doesn’t always land, even when it’s offered, and what begins to shift when you stop overriding yourself in the process of staying connected.You might want to listen if:You want deeper connection but feel guilty or selfish for wanting moreYou often shrink, over-explain, or apologize when you try to ask for what you needYou’re good at giving love but struggle to fully receive itLove shows up, but it doesn’t always land or feel nourishingYou’re tired of abandoning yourself just to keep the peace in relationshipsWORK WITH ME🎯 Schedule your FREE 30-min Attachment Assessment with Jenn — see if the Fall 2026 Cohort is the right fit for youReady Now? Join the Speak Honest AcademyApply for FREE Podcast Coaching with JennAsk your Coach a question — it might get featured on the showLEARN MOREGrab your copy of the #1 best-selling book, Dance of AttachmentVisit www.speak-honest.com to learn moreWatch Jenn's 🔴 TEDx TalkSTAY CONNECTEDJoin our FREE Speak Honest Facebook Group 🧡Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honestEnjoying the show? A review helps other women find us!DISCLAIMER:  Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for acc...

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Why does wanting more love feel so risky, even when connection is the thing you want most? In this episode of Speak Honest, I explore what happens inside us when desire, asking, and receiving love start to feel loaded, especially around Valentine’s Day. We slow things down and look at why love doesn’t always land, even when it’s offered, and what begins to shift when you stop overriding yourself in the process of staying connected. You might want to listen if: You want deeper connection but f...

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