106 - Recovery and the Power of Admission

Click here to read the episode highlights.    The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) and The Voice of the Heart Center (vothcenter.com). You can connect with Dr. Chip Dodd at [email protected]. Contact Bryan Barley for coaching at [email protected].    Be sure to subscribe to Dr Chip Dodd’s new Substack. He will be sharing two to three articles a week. The topics focus on healthy relationship, personal growth, and leadership. Dr. Dodd shares content two to three times a week. To subscribe, use the link above or go to chipdodd.com.   FREE RESOURCE: Six Freedoms from Birth   The Power of Admission:   When we admit we have a problem that we cannot stop repeating and this problem creates negative consequences, we have begun the first movement of  recovery.   Admission is often mistakenly related to losing, or what is associated with being a “loser.”     Addiction is fueled by toxic shame. This toxic shame “ranks” everything being about winners and losers, a scoreboard, comparison, ranking, excluding/including and worth.    Our toxic shame mistakenly identifies our admission as being a failure or worthless.   Most recovering people who recount their stories will agree that admission of a problem is very often experienced as relief.    People who are addicted are often tired of being enslaved by the addiction.   Recovery ultimately moves a person away from “ranking” themselves over and over again to recognizing a new way of seeing success.   Success is having a passion plus pursuit that will contend with obstacles and challenges. There is no ranking or even competition. The only focus is keeping the passion fueled.   Success, then, comes in many packages, from planting flowers every spring and “feeding” bees and butterflies, to becoming a neurosurgeon who discovers a new method for brain surgery.   The power of admitting addiction is the first step towards returning to and then becoming “whole” again.    Admission moves a person into their “Six Freedoms from Birth” journey.   Recovery from the sickness of addiction moves us toward recovery of who we were created to become.    Click here to continue reading the episode highlights.