106: Sex Therapist & Hubby: Nerves, Intimacy Struggles, & Bedroom Routines

Vanessa & Xander everyone!!! This duo of therapist and hubby are our fav social media sex-tips couple! They give us perspectives on what intimacy struggles we ALL have. WE ARE NORMAL. How common are nerves in the bedroom? Intimacy lacking because of confidence or distance or lack of interest? Do people actually like… butt stuff? THEY COVER IT ALL. We get their take on candid listener questions & why routine might be your friend…. They don’t skip past the WHY behind these candid sex convos & how it can be HARD just to have them with their partner. Communication is your FRIEND. We loved hosting Vanessa & Xander - we know you will too! Follow them on social @vanessaandxander and join their email list at vmtherapy.com for totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. Make sure you're subscribed to the Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvubmkAuRsb_dc5gkENFgdwRate the Podcast on Apple Podcasts here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/straight-candid/id1533334441Follow on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vRJ28o86EEjNpDcF81a1G  Get 10% OFF your first month of Better Help Therapy at http://www.betterhelp.com/candidGet a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D + 5 free travel packs* of Athletic Greens at https://www.athleticgreens.com/candidGet 20% OFF + Free Shipping with code CANDID20 at https://www.manscaped.com/#ad #manscapedpod #manscaped Follow the Podcast and the Hosts on Social Media:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/straightcandidpodcast/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@straightcandidpodcast/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StraightCandidpodcast/Twitter: https://twitter.com/straightcandid?laSyd (IG): https://www.instagram.com/candidsyd/Soph (IG): https://www.instagram.com/candidsoph/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices