107: Navigating Countertransference: A Guide for Couples Therapists with Sindee Gozansky, LCPC

In this episode of the Heart-Centered Therapist podcast, host Sindee Gozansky dives into the important topic of countertransference in couples therapy. She explains what countertransference is and why it's something all therapists experience.  Sindee shares relatable examples like favoring one partner, feeling triggered by anger, and avoiding conflict, and offers practical tips on how to handle these situations. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, being curious, reflection and  supervision. The episode reassures therapists that countertransference is a normal part of the job and can actually help improve therapy if managed well. Tune in for some great insights and tips to deepen your practice! 00:00 Introduction to Countertransference 00:25 Understanding Countertransference 01:21 Impact of Unrecognized Countertransference 01:53 Managing Countertransference 03:06 Practical Examples of Countertransference 03:39 Siding with One Partner 06:56 Handling Anger in Therapy 08:58 Avoiding Conflict and Wanting to Be Liked 11:34 Dealing with Dominant Partners 13:41 Avoiding Confrontation 16:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts   Check out Berries: Berries Referral Link: heyberries.com/?via=heart-centered Discount code: Sindee50 for $50 off your first month Connect with Sindee: Visit my website: https://heartcenteredtherapistpodcast.com/  Join the Heart-Centered Therapist Community FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/478651669638167 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heartcenteredtherapist/ Shop Mental Health Threads: https://mentalhealththreads.etsy.com Interested in realigning your own practice to be more heart-centered? Join Sindee on her podcast by signing up for a Therapist Alignment Session. This brief, 15-30-minute conversation is a unique opportunity to re-align with your heart-centered approach, both in your client interactions and in the development of your practice. Whether you're at the beginning of your career or an experienced therapist, these sessions are designed to help you gain clarity on specific issues you're facing. Sign up for your Therapist Alignment Session here: https://calendly.com/heartcenteredtherapistpodcast/therapist-alignment-session Want to be a guest on the podcast? Email Sindee: [email protected] For more information on the Couples Therapy Mentorship Group, email me at [email protected]