108. Are you dating with intention or just seeking attention?

Let's be honest about dating. Most people aren't dating with intention. They're dating for attention. External validation. Company. The idea of someone. Not the reality of co-existing with another soul who's going to trigger you, redirect you, and break you apart in ways you didn't see coming. Because here's what nobody tells you: dating isn't about being 100% yourself. It's messy. It's uncomfortable. It brings up everything you've been avoiding. And if you're not intentional about that, if you're just open to the idea of having someone come into your life, you're not actually available. You're just lonely. In this episode, I get vulnerable about my own past with dating. The times I confused attention for connection. The times I thought I was ready when I was really just seeking validation. And I talk about what it actually means to be available for a relationship. Not just open to it. Not just wanting company. But ready to have your triggers surfaced. Ready to be broken apart and rebuilt. Ready to co-exist with another soul, not just fill the space next to you. If you've been dating but wondering why it never feels right, this one's for you. Are you seeking attention or are you actually intentional? 🩷 -------------------------------------- 💃🏻Take our FREE Pleasure Archetype Quiz  -------------------------------------- 🩷Connect with Katelin 🧡You Go Girlfriend 🌸📲 @yougogirlfriend_ www.yougogirlfriend.com.au📧 [email protected]   You Go Bro 🩵💚Men, ready to lean in? 📲@yougobro_www.yougobro.com.au -------------------------------------- 💛 Sponsor Love 💃🏻 That’s The Spot Luxe pleasure gifts. Use YOUGOGIRL for 20% off. Yoni Pleasure Palace Wands, eggs + all things pleasure. Use SPICEITUP10 for 10% off. -------------------------------------- Music promoted by Mokkahttps://youtu.be/dct30rHIq6Q