108. How to UnFu*k Your Relationship Before It's Too Late with Gary John Bishop

ABOUT THE EPISODE: Everyone wants that amazing, fulfilling, and profoundly connected relationship we've all read about and dreamed of with someone who gets you and you get them, and all is wonderful in the world.  But what is the reason some of us don't have it? Maybe you don't know shit about having an authentically great relationship! That's according to our guest this week. The "Sex Pistols of Self-Help," Gary John Bishop is also the author of "Love Unfucked: Getting Your Relationship Shit Together." It's the latest title from his "Unfuck Yourself" series.  In this episode of The Fit Mess, Gary shares why you need to stop shifting blame in your relationships, take responsibility, and face yourself first if you truly want a real relationship that actually works. What We Discuss with Gary: 00:00 Intro 2:22 Thoughts create reality 5:36 Why Love UnFu*ked is an important book now 9:58 Which relationships need help 11:22 Self-reflection leads to growth 14:21 Don't change for other people 19:06 People don't change but relationships do 24:39 Why you keep attracting assholes 28:17 Can you be loved if you don't love yourself 30:08 What Gary's wife thinks about his relationship advice Like this show? Please leave us a review here – even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Resources: Guest Website Connect with The Fit Mess Podcast on: Website Twitter Instagram Facebook Facebook Group YouTube [email protected]