#108 - Merit Kahn: Optimistic Personality Disorder - Turning Life Into Comedy

In this episode of Was It Chance, Alan Seales and Heather Vickery talk with comedian, keynote speaker, and storyteller Merritt Kahn about turning life’s unexpected plot twists into powerful creative material. Merritt is the creator and performer of Optimistic Personality Disorder, a one-woman show that blends stand-up comedy, storytelling, and personal insight as she explores divorce, parenting, empty nesting, and the unpredictable turns life can take. With a background in sales training, emotional intelligence, and positive psychology, Merritt brings a unique perspective to the stage—using humor not just to entertain, but to help people rethink how they relate to their own life stories. What started as a desire to be funnier in her keynote speeches eventually led Merritt into stand-up comedy and, ultimately, into writing and producing her own theatrical show. Through journaling and reflection, she discovered the phrase “optimistic personality disorder,” which became both the title of her show and a philosophy for how she approaches life. In the conversation, Merritt shares how comedy can help loosen the emotional grip of painful experiences, allowing people to revisit difficult chapters—like divorce or family conflict—and reinterpret them through a lens of growth and humor. Merritt also talks about the realities of producing and touring a one-woman show, from selling tickets and traveling with props to dreaming about where the project could go next. Her story is a reminder that failure is rarely final, creativity often emerges from unexpected places, and sometimes the best way to move forward is to laugh at what once felt overwhelming. As Merritt says, tragedy plus time equals comedy—but it doesn’t always have to take that long. Connect with Merit: OPDshow.com Connect With Us: 📩 Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎧 Follow Was It Chance? on your favorite podcast platform 📱 Connect with us on ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠LinkedIn⁠ ✨ More about Heather at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠subscribe to her Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and more⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit Heather's Bookshop⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠The Reading Well⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices