109. Intentional Intimacy in Life's Biggest Transitions: Staying Connected When Everything Changes

Honestly, the most powerful thing about this episode might be what happens when two exhausted people choose to show up for each other anyway. The Drapers are navigating the final days before their baby arrives while simultaneously restarting their business after fourteen months—and they're pulling back the curtain on what intimacy actually looks like when life gets messy.Here's what might surprise you: they're not talking about romance in the traditional sense. Instead, they break down how true intimacy encompasses emotional, spiritual, and energetic connection that extends far beyond the bedroom. (Foot rubs and extended cuddles count, apparently.) With Michaela experiencing pregnancy complications and both partners stretched thin, they discuss how small, consistent acts of service create meaningful bonds even when grand gestures aren't possible.The episode challenges a common assumption—that intimacy naturally happens when you love someone. The Drapers argue otherwise, emphasizing that healthy relationships require intentional action, not just good intentions. They share practical advice: start each day asking how you can serve your spouse, prioritize date nights even during challenging seasons, and extend grace when postpartum affects both partners.When did you last intentionally pursue intimacy in all its forms?Tune in for an honest conversation about staying connected when everything else demands your attention.Now, If you find this episode valuable, please share with your significant other, friends, and family. We love you!Listen in!Thank you for listening to this episode of Choosing Us.