109. Why Dating Should Be a Part-Time Job – Insights from Narelle A. Sheehan

Hosts:Cinthia Varkevisser (Mystic) & Michelle Walters (Mind Power)Guest:Narelle A. Sheehan, Life Coach, Director, and Creator of Not a Nurse or a PurseEpisode Overview:In this episode of Mind Power Meets Mystic, Cinthia and Michelle dive into the world of dating with special guest Narelle Shehan. Narelle shares her personal journey from post-divorce dating to the creation of her popular dating philosophy, Not a Nurse or a Purse. She emphasizes the importance of being specific about what you want in a partner, learning from past relationships, and standing firm in your boundaries.Key Topics:The concept of Not a Nurse or a Purse: A guide for women (and men) to avoid slipping into caregiving roles (nurse) or being financially used (purse) in relationships.Narelle’s unique dating journey: From surviving a difficult divorce to dating 100 people as a way to rediscover what she wanted in a partner.The power of making a list of 100 things you want in a partner. Narelle explains how this practice helped her find someone who checked 99 of her 100 items.Why dating should be treated like a part-time job: It requires effort, intentionality, and perseverance.Online dating tips: Be honest in your profile, set clear boundaries, and don’t settle for someone who doesn’t align with your values.The importance of finding a partner who meets your emotional and practical needs, and learning to stand by your non-negotiables.Memorable Quotes:“People are so nice. I talk to anyone, and everyone’s my friend until they’re not.” – Narelle A. Sheehan“Dating has to start where you have the most anxiety, otherwise you’ll never get over it.” – Narelle A. Sheehan“Write a list of 100 things you want in a partner, and don’t compromise on what truly matters to you.” – Narelle A. Sheehan“If they don’t have the same music or literary references as you, they’re probably not the right person.” – Narelle A. SheehanTips & Takeaways:Be specific: Create a list of 100 things you want in a partner, and don’t be afraid to ask for what you really want.Online dating honesty: Don’t lie about your age, height, or appearance. It sets the wrong tone from the start.Boundaries are key: Know when to say no, especially when it comes to paying for dates or being expected to take on caregiving roles in relationships.It’s okay to prioritize your needs: Whether it’s financial stability, emotional health, or physical compatibility, your needs are valid.Treat dating like a part-time job: Be committed, focused, and willing to put in the effort to find the right partner.About Narelle A. Sheehan:Narelle is a life coach, director, and creator of the dating coaching program Not a Nurse or a Purse, where she helps women and men navigate the dating world with clarity and confidence. She offers a three-month dating group where participants focus on self-awareness, healing past patterns, and renewing their approach to relationships.What’s Next for Narelle:Narelle is launching a free monthly masterclass in the new year, along with her signature three-month dating group, which focuses on helping individuals identify their dating blind spots and create lasting change in their relationship patterns.Connect with Narelle:Instagram: @CreativeNarelleWebsite: www.creativepowercoacing.comEmail: [email protected]