11 - Congruent & Incongruent: Living from Values Instead of Goals

In today’s episode, Tricia and Murray dive into the difference between living congruently—when your heart, mind, body, and spirit are aligned with God’s truth—and living incongruently, when your goals clash with your deepest God-given values.As Sensor/Feelers, we don’t just pick up facts or words—we sense atmospheres, emotions, and even spiritual undercurrents. When our values and actions line up, life flows with peace and rest. But when they don’t, even if we “reach the goal,” it leaves us restless, confused, or even feeling cheated.Together, we’ll explore: ✨ What congruent living looks like and why it brings rest. ✨ Why goals alone aren’t enough if your values don’t align. ✨ The tension of incongruence—when chasing goals costs you your peace. ✨ Real-life stories of discovering values vs. goals in ministry and relationships. ✨ Practical ways to live from your values first so that goals gain clarity and your decisions carry peace instead of pressure.At the heart of this conversation is a simple truth: Goals give direction, but values give foundation. When you live from values first, your goals align with who God made you to be—and that’s where true rest is found.