11: The Runner You Thought You'd Be

In this episode of Wired to Run, Will and Laura delve into the emotional and psychological aspects of running, exploring the comparisons we make and the expectations we set for our running journeys. They discuss the healing power of running, the impact of life changes on our goals, and the importance of finding joy in the process. The conversation emphasizes the need to adapt our expectations and embrace our unique journeys as runners, while also addressing the dangers of chasing an idealized version of ourselves. They discuss the challenges of comparing oneself to past performances and the mental health implications of such comparisons. The dialogue explores the idea of looking ahead, redefining success in running, and the significance of community and support. Chapters1:15 This Week's Topic2:50 Q&A: Who Did You Think Running Would Make You?5:43 Goals, Confidence & Discipline8:29 Running as Healing13:26 When Progress Is Slower Than Expected16:08 The Fantasy Runner21:38 Marathon Training & Body Image29:21 When Life Gets in the Way36:53 Chasing the Ghost43:51 The Danger of Chasing the Ghost48:19 How to Make the Shift53:18 Redefining Success57:42 The Runner You Never Saw Coming64:20 The Runner Who Kept GoingIf you’re enjoying Wired To Run, leaving us a quick rating or review is one of the best ways to support the podcast and help more runners find the show. We’d also love for you to come hang out with us on Instagram: @wiredtorunpod and Facebook: Wired To Run Podcast where we keep the conversation going beyond the episode. Thanks for being part of this community and running with us.  Have a song that runs you? Send it our way on Instagram, Facebook, or email, and we may feature it on the show during our new series, “Songs That Run Us” If this episode reminded you that you're not the only runner whose brain sprints faster than their legs, spread the word! Share it with a friend, post it on your stories or send us a message at [email protected]. We're building the ADHD/neurodivergent running community that should've existed ages ago, and you're helping bring us all together.  Even if you don’t have ADHD, but you sometimes relate to feeling overwhelmed, struggle with consistency or motivation in your running journey, you are welcome here!