111. How to Decenter Men While Dating & In Love (Stop Losing Yourself)

If you keep losing yourself the moment you like someone… this video will change your dating life.Today we’re talking about how to decenter men while dating and in a relationship — so you can stop worrying about whether he likes you and start focusing on whether he’s aligned with you.In this video, we cover:✨ What it really means to “center a man”✨ Why women lose themselves when they catch feelings✨ How conditioning, trauma, and scarcity mindsets impact dating✨ How to stay grounded, confident, and self-led✨ How to maintain your routines, boundaries, and identity✨ How to date without anxiety, overthinking, or performing✨ How to keep decentering men inside a relationship✨ The mindset shifts that help you stop chasing male validation✨ What healthy attraction feels like vs. anxious attachment✨ How to evaluate men instead of auditioning for themThis isn’t about being cold or detached — it’s about being whole.Decentering men is not anti-men. It’s pro-you.If you want to build a meaningful life and healthy relationships, this video is your guide.—————✨ Let’s connect:💜1:1 coaching &BONUS podcast episodes https://www.patreon.com/Ivebeenthatgirl💜books, coaching and more:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.netAuthors page: https://www.amazon.com/author/kindalld💜MY SOCIALS:YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?si=ztPs0PVePJP-q6VrI’ve Been That Girl, too Instagram: (151K followers) https://www.instagram.com/ivebeenthatgirltoo/TikTok: (42.7K Followers) https://www.tiktok.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?_t=8s8vdJSMVZv&_r=1Threads: (35K followers) https://www.threads.net/@ivebeenthatgirltoo?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Business Inquiries:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.net(Click the envelope icon at the top of the site)