112. Don’t take your partner’s oxygen away

The planets are sending a lot of changes the girl's way. Just when they think they have their shit together, the universe has other plans! Anna's shining bright as she steps a toe back into clinical practice.    Sara was off to the UK at the last moment to ship her daughter back to uni. Time is flying by as she heads back for her second year.     Mourning has officially ended as the UK lays their queen to rest. By Queenie, you've served us well.      Love Desk - Couple married for 30 years, 7 kids, no arguments and no raised voices ...... say what!!! I need to know more ......   Hot Topic - Don't take your partner's oxygen away.  There's some illogical logic in the hot topic this week. Wise words are shared about how to unpick this for yourself in your relationship. Hands up if you recognise any of the behaviour highlighted by the girls.  Sara delivers a big blow with a killer question to ask yourself this week. They are spicy and leave us contemplating and reflecting.     Question of the week - "I'm estranged from my sibling, I feel deep shame. Should I try to speak to them again?"   1 in 3 people are in this situation. Family dynamics have a strong pull and easily slip into the same family roles. It's a complicated business. So many people feel shame when they are detached from their family, it triggers feelings of self-judgement and negative self-talk.    If you feel like you blinked and missed September, you are not alone!    Till next time!   Get in touch! Geordie Lass & Doc Sass Email - [email protected] with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential.    Sara Liddle Email: [email protected] Website: www.inflori.co.uk   Anna Stratis Email: [email protected]  Website: www.coachdocanna.com