113: Initiating Sex

“Not tonight honey.” 3 infamous words that can sting like a dagger to the heart. But what if there was more information hidden behind these words that could help revive our sex life + desire? Sexual initiation is a vulnerable act. We can help ourselves when we know how our body and that of our partner best receives our efforts. Here we talk about the different styles of initiation that we can approach out partner with in more effective + meaningful ways that are unique to them + you. In this episode you’ll hear: Why initiating sex can be vulnerable + what contributes to our avoiding the role How past rejections can contribute to a freeze response + diminish sexual desire The importance of knowing what our styles of receiving, giving, + receiving a no when it comes to initiation of sex How you can identify your style of initiation (We give 5 to help) Effective tools for communicating it with your partner NOTES FROM THE SHOW: www.yonipleasurepalace.com and use my code DRCAT for 10% off WANT MORE? Start your journey to coming back home to your body + developing a sensual relationship. Grab my FREE Sensual Sundays Guide full of all my favorite products + Sunday ritual to reconnect with your pleasure once again. If you’re desiring a deeper dive into the lifestyle of sensual pleasure, come join me for a 14 day initiation into Sensual Awakening. Learn the foundations of activating your pleasure senses, creating luxury without expense, + cultivating a lovership with your body, again.