115: Birthdays, Shame & Interactive Travel

Silence makes you the enemy/shaming circles Survival of the shameless / consequences of shame is gone we don't know any better - so we just do it the Abilene paradox/anything is better than what you have now creative destruction vs conserve and protect does travel really broaden the mind / depends on the interaction are you seeing things or meeting people? SF has the big city attitude / social gatherings you need to interact with people / can you become an extrovert art is challenging/do you risk taking on vacation a law-abiding ctizen / memory is malleable the virtual is no different than the real travel without going to hotels/sleeping in your car no RV required / camping / shared bathrooms mgtow reaction videos to tiktok girls its there just hard to move /  pigeonholed into categories we are used to seeing people in a certain way literally: wear a different hat / conveys credibility can you learn to be an extrovert / I is I and E is E