116: Do You Want Patience That Endures?

What if the secret to unwavering patience isn’t about waiting for it to magically appear, but about admitting that we’ve simply stopped trying? Evan Money and Susan Money reveal that our fuse is shortest with those we love most because we are lazy, not because we run out of patience. With a candid positive spin, they empower listeners to reclaim endurance by intentionally “stoking the fire” in their relationships and training patience like a muscle.Highlights include the elevator analogy on accessing limitless patience, transparent stories about marriage and parenting, and practical tips to turn impatience into a moment for growth. Listen in for wisdom on finishing strong in marriage, inspired by championship athletes and real-life experiences, and discover how those closest to you aren’t testing your patience—they’re building it.00:00 Do you want patience that endures?00:09 100 weddings by my 100th birthday00:31 Welcome and inspiration to guide you from good to great in marriage00:45 What greatness in marriage really means01:28 Shout-outs and Galatians 5:22 “fruits of the Spirit” reflection02:30 Elevator analogy for accessing patience03:15 Why our patience is shortest with loved ones—truth revealed04:04 Fireplace analogy: effort vs. laziness in relationships05:15 How to reignite patience when your “fire” has gone cold06:13 “Endure” defined and sports analogy for finishing strong07:33 Personal transparency: patience in marriage vs. parenting08:16 Running analogy: building endurance through practice10:11 Turning impatience into opportunity for growth11:02 Patience isn’t something you have—it’s something you train11:49 Endurance: rising in the moment and finishing stronger12:33 Fourth quarter mindset when patience runs low12:59 Show up bigger at home—your true greatness13:30 Take action, write it down, and make it happen13:37 Episode wrap-up and encouragementTimestamped Episode Overview