116. You’re Not Clingy (He Needs a Healthy Obsession With You or You Will Feel Clingy)

If a man doesn’t have a healthy obsession with you, the relationship will slowly make you anxious, insecure, and self-doubting.Women are constantly told they’re “clingy,” “too emotional,” or “asking for too much”—when in reality, they’re responding to emotional inconsistency and lack of presence.In this video, I break down:• What “healthy obsession” actually means (and what it doesn’t)• Why women feel anxious in emotionally unavailable relationships• Why some men push back hard against emotional closeness• The difference between control and emotional investment• Why the right man makes you feel settled—not confusedThis isn’t about toxicity.It’s about emotional responsibility.If you’ve ever felt like you had to shrink, stay quiet, or lower your expectations to keep a man—this conversation is for you.✨ Share this with a woman who’s been told she’s “too much.”✨ Subscribe for honest conversations about love, attachment, and emotional safety.✨ Let’s connect:💜1:1 coaching &BONUS podcast episodes https://www.patreon.com/Ivebeenthatgirl💜books, coaching and more:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.netAuthors page: https://www.amazon.com/author/kindalld💜MY SOCIALS:YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?si=ztPs0PVePJP-q6VrI’ve Been That Girl, too Instagram: (151K followers) https://www.instagram.com/ivebeenthatgirltoo/TikTok: (42.7K Followers) https://www.tiktok.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?_t=8s8vdJSMVZv&_r=1Threads: (35K followers) https://www.threads.net/@ivebeenthatgirltoo?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Business Inquiries:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.net(Click the envelope icon at the top of the site)