117. Reinvention and Resilience: Tom Matlack's Tale of Transformation

Welcome to another episode of Warriors Unmasked. Tom Matlack's life journey is as compelling as it is tumultuous. From facing death twice—once through addiction and later on the brink of suicide—to ascending the corporate ladder as the CFO of a Fortune 500 company, Tom's story is a testament to resilience and determination. Behind every accolade lies a tale of inner conflict. By 2018, despite a storied professional life, Tom felt a spiritual void so profound that it pushed him to the precipice of despair. But through sheer willpower, by 2021, he pivoted to dedicating his life to assisting men in overcoming addiction. Observing the wider mental health crisis affecting males in America, he's now on a mission to uplift and support them. In this episode, Tom opens up about these trials, reflecting on the duality of professional success and personal struggle. While Tom acknowledges his imperfections as a father, he's steadfast in his commitment. His children are a testament to his efforts, each forging their own path of success. He recalls moments, like feeding his newborn son, that brought clarity to his life.  Tom's journey is a beacon for all who face life's adversities. It serves as a reminder that with introspection, perseverance, and support, one can rise from the depths of despair to the pinnacle of success. Eager to dive deeper into his story? Hit play now for more on this incredible journey. Trigger warning: In this episode, our guest shares his journey with alcoholism and suicide. If you or someone you love has recently experienced the tragic loss to suicide, please feel free to skip this episode during your healing process. We have 100+ other powerful conversations to enjoy at www.warriorsunmasked.com   GUEST LINKS:   Tom's Substack: https://tommatlack.substack.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1361992037943173 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasmatlack/   LINKS: malarchuk.com/book  malarchuk.com  www.thecompassionateconnection.com www.warriorsunmasked.com  Join Chuck's Text Community: 251-418-7966 Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Subscribe To Our YouTube My Community Contact   Episode Minute By Minute: 00:00 Introduction from Chuck + messages from our sponsors  02:36 Welcome special guest, Tom Matlack  03:52 Dive into the backstory of Tom's life and where his journey began  05:35 The beginning to a life of addiction for Tom  07:19 The consequences of becoming an alcoholic  08:19 Alcoholism acts as a bandaid for anxiety and shame and becomes a vicious cycle  09:42 A look into Tom's life after school and into his career  11:21 Tom talks about his draw to the business world and the success that came with it  12:49 How the struggle with alcoholism began to impact Tom's life and family  15:04 Tom's realization of being an alcoholic and deciding to change his life for his kids  16:51 Tom talks about what it's like to have a hole in your soul without spirituality  18:51 Tom shares his journey of becoming sober again and the desire to be a good father  21:43 Tom talks about being transparent with his kids and helping them walk through life  24:30 Tom's journey back to success and fall back into anxiety and suicidal thoughts  25:10 At the lowest point of his life, Tom shares a spiritual experience that broke his ego  26:26 Tom's experience at the mental hospital and love for the people who saved his life 28:50 Tom's journey back into society after mental health care  30:27 Tom has a spiritual awakening that brought on permanent change in his life  32:35 Working with young men in addiction and the bond that Tom has formed with them  33:45 Tom talks about the gratitude that he has today from all of his experiences  35:28 The journey of self reflection and the emotions that come with that  38:49 Tom shares more about the work that he does today with young men who are in danger  41:26 The impact of men becoming more self aware and willingness to reconnect  45:31 Tom shares how he keeps his mind healthy and in good spirits today  48:51 Tom gives his final advice to young men who are struggling in life