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EPISODE · Mar 2, 2026 · 24 MIN

117. The Hidden Cost of Being 'Good': How Perfectionism Blocks Real Connection

from Live Brighter With Tara · host Tara Wolfe Schaan

What if perfectionism and being "the good one" are quietly disconnecting you from yourself—and others? In this two-part episode of Live Brighter with Tara, we explore the essence of fierce conversations, the power of authentic connection, and why conversations shape the health of every relationship. Tara shares how to build courage through honest dialogue and offers a simple structure for having conversations that create clarity instead of conflict. ✨ An invitation to speak truth with compassion, strengthen your relationships, and live brighter through authentic connection.   Get Your FREE Unravel Notebook Chapter for This Week: https://www.livebrighter.info/lead-collection For More Information: https://www.livebrighter.info/ Get the Unravel Notebook HERE: https://www.amazon.com/Unravel-Notebook-Tara-Wolfe-Schaan/dp/B0CTPDWJ8L   PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS: 00:50 Understanding Perfectionism and "Goodism" 02:04 The Hidden Cost of Perfectionism and People-Pleasing 05:34 Where Perfectionism Begins: Early Messages and Conditioning 14:49 The Path Toward Self-Compassion and Authentic Self-Worth 17:00 How Hypnotherapy Can Help Rewire Perfectionism   Follow us on our Socials! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livebrighterwithtara/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Live-Brighter-with-Tara/61552844352218/   Grow 1% each day, I believe in you! Thank you for listening!   Tags: #HowToStopPeoplePleasing #Perfectionism #HardConversations #CommunicationSkills #EmotionalHealth #RelationshipAdvice #BoundariesInRelationships #perfectionismrecovery #goodism #recoveringperfectionist #subconsciousreprogramming #overcomingselfcriticism #overcomingselfdoubt #childhoodtrauma #innerchildhealing

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