118. He Wasn’t Special…He Was Just Fine (And He Wanted You)

He wasn’t even that special… he was just fine. And he wanted you.In this video, we’re talking about why we fall for emotionally unavailable men, why love bombing works on self-aware women, and the truth about validation, attention, and our inner teen.Sometimes it’s not a soul tie.Sometimes it’s not destiny.Sometimes it’s just the first time a man we actually find attractive chooses us — and we build it into something it never was.We’re unpacking: • Love bombing and why it feels so intense • The difference between chemistry and validation • Why emotionally unavailable men feel exciting • The “inner teen” no one talks about • How to stop confusing being chosen with being valuedIf you’ve ever chased a man who was “fine” but inconsistent… this one is for you.You’re not crazy. You’re not weak.You just finally felt chosen.Healing Sundays ONLY on my YouTube channel can be found here:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwGugZ7M2WXmeERAHpePYJzNimNl_3ZLH&si=0D3RBNDvIyA1rBbs✨ Let’s connect:💜1:1 coaching &BONUS podcast episodes https://www.patreon.com/Ivebeenthatgirl💜books, coaching and more:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.netAuthors page: https://www.amazon.com/author/kindalld💜MY SOCIALS:YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?si=ztPs0PVePJP-q6VrI’ve Been That Girl, too Instagram: (151K followers) https://www.instagram.com/ivebeenthatgirltoo/TikTok: (42.7K Followers) https://www.tiktok.com/@ivebeenthatgirl?_t=8s8vdJSMVZv&_r=1Threads: (35K followers) https://www.threads.net/@ivebeenthatgirltoo?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Business Inquiries:https://linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.net(Click the envelope icon at the top of the site)