#119 Relevance

How much of your life is spent giving time, energy, emotion, or money to things that bear no fruit? In this episode, I explore relevance — what is actually worth your energy, and what isn’t. I look at how easy it is to become invested in ideas, movements, promises, or causes that we can’t influence, can’t verify, and have no real proof behind… yet somehow continue to consume our lives for years, even decades. I share parts of my own journey — how I learned to put filters on my life to decide what was relevant not only for me, but for humanity and the world as a whole. Those filters helped me stop giving my energy away to empty promises, false hope, and endless breadcrumbs that never lead anywhere. This episode also touches on a hard truth: some of the kindest, most well-intentioned people are often the ones who give the most of themselves — and are therefore the easiest to keep waiting. Not because they’re foolish, but because they genuinely want to believe in the good, in people, and in a better outcome. I talk about how long-term hope without proof can quietly become soul-destroying, how ego steps in to protect us when things don’t come to fruition, and how even large humanitarian or oppositional movements can unknowingly recycle the same promises without measurable results. Most importantly, I explain how to reclaim your energy — by learning to trust your emotional guidance system, recognise what feels right, and choose experiences that actually bear fruit in your life. This isn’t about telling you what to believe. It’s about helping you decide what’s relevant for you, so you can stop giving your life away — and start experiencing it fully, balanced, and feeling good most of the time.