119. What Self-Reliance Really Is: Misunderstanding Independence & How To Unlock Your Free-Will

I used to believe independence was the highest form of success. I used to feel that my emotional, physical, and financial needs felt like a burden to others yet too much for me to handle by myself. Now, I see things differently. Whether you're the eldest daughter and are driven to do it all by yourself while silently suffocating from the pressure, or you're a creative honing your craft while living with your parents- this episode is for you. (00:00) intro & solo travel self-reflections(02:33) rethinking independence(03:43) independence as the ticket to being good(04.37) chasing "goodness"(09:40) what self-reliance is and is not(10:40) believing you are more valuable if you don't have needs(19:40) knowing your needs and wants(23:46) intentional crowd-sourcing(25:27) knowing your capacity(31:10) paradox tolerance(35:10) knowing your strengths & lean in(41:13) trusting things are figureoutable(42:31) fear holds you back when you don't admit them(50:35) fears I'm working through(53:24) your intention for your life supersedes that of anyone else's(54:24) free will(57:58) independence exists within community(01:13:05) rely on your character, not what you haveEpisode Mentioned: Listen to Episode 91. why you need to prioritize joy & pleasure in the present hereWays to work with me 🤝✨ Book a Soul Whispering Session (tarot, human design, and spiritual life coaching) : https://www.jencui.com/card-readings✨ Learn More About RTT® Hypnotherapy: https://www.jencui.com/rtt✨ 3 Month Heal & Grow Mentorship: https://www.jencui.com/healandgrowFREE RESOURCES 🔥⭐️ Free 21-Day Hypnosis Audio for Confidence, Inner Safety, and Daily Happiness: https://jencui.podia.com/hypnosis-for-daily-happiness-true-confidence⭐️ Free Tarot Pick-a-Card Reading: https://jencui.podia.com/newsletter