120. It Used to Be My Silver Lining | Now It's Just Life

Host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss shares how, when traveling, hosting gatherings, or hearing about college tuition, she now feels genuine relief and freedom about not having children—feelings that sometimes bring guilt because she and Victor wanted kids for a long time and went through infertility treatments. She reflects that freedom used to be a “silver lining” she leaned on during intense grief, but has shifted into simply being her life now, including spontaneous trips, quiet, and time with friends. She reassures listeners that healing isn’t linear: those still grieving don’t need to rush, and those further along are allowed to feel both relief and guilt without explaining or choosing between them. Big RealizationRelief Without KidsFreedom Becomes LifeMessage for Fellow GrieversEmbracing Both FeelingsConnect with Elizabeth:IG: @bychanceavenueStay connected & up to date with all things By ChanceWant to share your story? Apply to be a guest!