122: Is It a Bad Thing To Be Selfish in Times Where Self Care is Brought Back to Society

We tackle the messy meaning of “selfish.” Is it always a bad thing, or have we just been taught to feel guilty for putting ourselves first? From mum guilt and solo living envy to backhanded compliments and babysitting dilemmas, this episode digs into when selfishness becomes self-respect—and when it crosses a line.We explore:– What makes someone “selfish”… and who gets to decide– How boundaries and burnout intersect– Why single people might be better at self-care– The difference between cold-hearted and clear-headed– Why we need a new word for healthy selfishnessGo on, be a little selfish. You might just feel better for it.When was the last time you were selfish—and proud of it?TakeawaysSelfishness can have both positive and negative connotations.Putting oneself first is sometimes necessary for mental health.Cultural perceptions of selfishness often stem from upbringing.Self-care is essential, but it can be viewed as selfish.Setting boundaries is a form of healthy selfishness.The definition of selfishness lacks nuance in societal discussions.Relationships require a balance between self-care and caring for others.Motherhood often complicates perceptions of selfishness.Being single may allow for more opportunities to practice selfishness.Selfishness should not be viewed solely as a negative trait.Keywordsegoism, selfishness, self-care, relationships, boundaries, personal needs, motherhood, self-awareness, mental health, compassion--------------------☕️ Buy us a coffee!🎙️ Send us a voice message🛍️ Buy some Rosie and Roula merch!--------------------⭐️ Leave us a review▶️ Follow us on Instagram and TikTok🎞️ Subscribe to our YouTube channel--------------------🎧 Check out Roula's podcast🎧 Check out Rosie's podcast