122. Is It Just a Cat? | A Pet by My Side Through Infertility & Beyond

Host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss shares that her cat, Tula, turns 14 in August and will have an end-of-month ultrasound to check her kidneys, which brings her anxiety despite normal blood work a few months ago; Tula is also on thyroid medication and a prescription diet. Elizabeth explains how Tula has been her constant companion since before she and Victor married, staying by her side through years of IVF treatments, losses, and grief, especially as Elizabeth works from home and Tula follows her everywhere. She reflects on the difficulty of watching Tula age and challenges the idea that worry or anticipatory grief is less valid because it’s “just a cat,” encouraging listeners to embrace and feel proud of loving and spoiling their pets without justification, while noting she dislikes the term “cat mama.”Welcome and Vet AnxietyWhy Tula Means So MuchHealth Updates and UltrasoundPet Love Is Real LoveCelebrate and Be PresentNo Shame in SpoilingCat Mama Side NoteBirthday Thanks and GoodbyeConnect with Elizabeth:IG: @bychanceavenueStay connected & up to date with all things By ChanceWant to share your story? Apply to be a guest!