123- How to Raise a Man: 3 Steps Moms Can Use That Sons Won’t Resist with DJ Logory

In this episode of the Front Parking Spot podcast, host Jennifer Bosma talks with DJ Logory, creator of Be That Guy, about practical, faith-friendly ways moms can help their sons move from “stuck” to confident, disciplined young men. DJ explains his coaching approach—combining hard skills (confidence, discipline, habits, job and school readiness) with soft skills (empathy, listening, kindness)—and how it gives families peace of mind while helping sons build the lives they love. Jennifer and DJ walk through three hands-off strategies moms can use immediately: 1) Get your son a mentor (an outside voice like a coach, teacher, pastor, or trusted male leader) so guidance lands differently than it does from Mom; 2) Use vulnerability—share a personal, tough story over a meal to build trust and emotional connection; and 3) Shape his environment—subtly create visual cues and gentle friction (leave a brochure on the counter, put a book on the controller, model healthy routines) to make better choices easier. The episode also covers habit-building tactics influenced by Atomic Habits (author James Clear) make habits visual (use printed calendars and tracking) and add “bumpers” (small environmental supports such as putting running shoes by the bed or a book on the steering wheel) to increase follow-through. They discuss how moms can influence sons who have left home—using conversations about possible future pain and arranging mentor support—and emphasize modeling positive behaviors at home. DJ and Jennifer recommend further reading (Atomic Habits, Deliberate Discomfort, and other practical titles), highlight the importance of accountability and community, and share real examples of young men who changed through simple, consistent steps. Connect with DJ here: IG: @djlogory - DJ Logory: Be That Guy (@djlogory) • Instagram photos and videos Be That Guy Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@bethatguyy Facebook: DJ Logory - DJ Logory Website: Be That Guy - www.bethatguyclub.com  BeThatGuyClub.com and his Instagram @DJLogory for resources, coaching and a mom-focused page to learn more. Christian children's books for all kids! — Jennifer Bosma Follow Jennifer on Instagram @frontparkingspot Have you been trying to explain the Trinity to the little ones in your life? Order Jennifer's newest book, God is Three in One. Are you in need of a thoughtful gift for the next baby shower? Consider a copy of Jennifer's book, I Know the Plans. Its engaging storytelling and Christian values make it a perfect choice for the 'bring a book instead of a card' request. Do you have a child waiting for a sibling to join the family? Order The Baby Garden Christian children's books for all kids! — Jennifer Bosma Your reviews on Apple Podcasts are invaluable! They help us improve and reach more moms interested in Christian children's books and podcasts. Scroll all the way down to 'Leave a Review' written in purple at the bottom of the page to share your thoughts. Subscribe to Jennifer's website at www.jenniferbosma.com Thanks, Moms, for listening. Please share with others! Have an Ephesians 3:20 day as you go for the Front Parking Spot in your life today!